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Tom, 60 y.o., United States, New York
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First name: Tom
Age: 60
Location: United States, New York
Zodiac Sign: Virgo
Weight: 88kg
Height: 178cm
Eye colour: Hazel
Hair colour: Dark Brown
Body type: Muscular
Smoking Frequency: Never
Drinking Frequency: Never
Sleeping habits: I am an early bird (I like to get up early)
With information:
Language:
French 2 (Elementary)
Marital status: Divorced
Want children: Undecided
Your priorities in life:
Family, long-term relationship
Health
Career
Your income: Good income
In my property: A house/ a cottage, A car
Where do you live?: Separate house/ cottage
Education: Bachelor's degree
Job title: a business
What religion do you practice?: Catholic
Preferences
Age: 22 - 35
Weight: 43.13 - 54.48 kg
Height: 152 - 175 cm
Eye colour: Any
Hair colour: Any
Is it okay if they have children?: Yes
Body type: Slender
Smokes: Never
Drinks: Occasionally(Socially)
Ethnic Preference: Asian, White/Caucasian, East Indian, Hispanic/Latino, Native American, Middle Eastern, Pacific Islander, South American

Responses to some questions

How would you describe yourself?
Thoughtful, intelligent, caring, athletic, creative, considerate, patient, devoted.
How would you describe your ideal partner?
Intelligent, fit, athletic, funny, caring, kind, considerate, cute, devoted, loyal, has a career.
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
fall in love.
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
Give some to childhood cancer research. Some to support foreign immigrants (mostly single mothers in need) who want to come to the USA for opportunity and safety. And save some for the future.
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
My amazing mother, my cousins (very good at business and life. I have a very few friends...but they are VERY close. I ask their advise as well.
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
Intelligence and loyalty to principals.
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
In a partner...loyalty and intelligence. I do not confuse intelligence with education. There are many intelligent people who have only gotten a high school degree. But are highly intelligent. But loyalty and being considerate are very important!
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
My divorce. I am hoping to find happiness in the future. I was married for 20 years. And I am hopeful That I will find love with one amazing woman.
What is the best advice that you give to your children?
Make good decisions. I am not there to help when you make most decisions in life (after about 12 years old). You will own your decisions and choices. I'm your biggest fan and cheerleader! But make good decisions...they stick with you.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
My divorce. I did not anticipate it. And while I am doing well now. Initially, it was quite a shock.
The last books that you read?
Usually science fiction, or detective novels, or techno-thrillers. My favorite in the last 4 years is Daemon and Freedom by Daniel Suarez.
What are your goals now?
Happiness, health, being able to continue to do vigorous activity. Not just go for walks. It's very much a part of who I am to do things that are athletic. Also to have a happy family life again. I'm very much a family man.
Whom do you admire?
My amazing mother. She's so positive, even through tough times. And anyone who makes difficult choices but for the right reasons. I admire people with great talent that you don't have a sense of entitlement and are kind to other people.
Do you have a lot of friends?
No. A few VERY good ones.
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
Mean people. Dishonesty. Selfish and disloyal people. Liars.
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
I hate women who feel entitled. Even if they have earned their way to the top and money...you should treat others well. I don't like gossipers. It's unattractive.
What would you like to change in yourself?
I would like to manage my stress better. I also would like to be more strict with myself about a daily workout and not eating after 8:00 pm when I travel. I travel for work a lot. And my work makes this challlengkng.
What are your weaknesses?
I trust too easily. I work too much...I need balance. I can be very social and entertaining. But my weakness is that I really prefer not to be in social situations with too many people. I don't like clubs, etc. I tend not to ask for help when I need it.
What are your strengths ?
I can handle more stress and pressure than most. I am loyal, carrying, considerate, reasonably fit, musical and creative, I am very good at my business and career. I value others and family is everything to me. I like to make others happy.
How do friends view you?
Honest, intelligent, loyal, caring, funny, a good family man, someone who will do the right thing even if it's not the best decision for me personally.
How do acquaintances view you?
Intense, high energy, maybe a bit quirky or different...Ha! Athletic. Funny.
What are your favourite games?
To play...springboard diving, running, etc. to watch...Football and high Diving.
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
Ayn Rand. Daniel Suarez, Lee Child, Rudyard Kipling.
What kinds of music do you like?
All kinds; pop, hip hop, classical, jazz. But I play piano and singing. And when I'm doing that, I like Elton John, Billy Joel, Adele, Gavin Degraw, etc.
What is your favourite food?
Lobster, Irish Stew, Greek Salad, Sushi
What are your favourite films?
Shawshank Redemption, Fight Club, Trainwreck, Starwars, Breaking Bad (TV Show).
What is your favourite fairy-tale?
Anything with a "Prince Charming". I'm Prince Charming. Hahaha!! Probably beauty and the beast.
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
Running, reading, building things.
What is your dream job?
Managing a non-profit, helping people in need. But I think I would have to be Rich first. Haha!
Tell us about your dream partner.
She has a great laugh and smile, she smiles with her eyes. She is comfortable being honest with me...even if we disagree or if it's not an easy topic. She is 100% loyal. She does not need to be the center of attention when she walks in the room. She does not need to have the attention of other men to feel good about yourself. My attentions should be more than enough for her. She is probably cute and pretty… But not a runway model. She probably does not wear too much makeup. She is probably very petite, because I have always dated gymnasts and diapers when I grow up and initially, that's who I married. And I have always been attracted mostly to those type of women. She has to be able to be athletic and go hiking, and loves to be outside. She has to love children and dogs. It doesn't mean that we have to have more children if she doesn't want to. But she needs to understand children well. She is intelligent and has passion. She has her own career and wants to continue to work, even after she is married, and even after she has children. I think we will both work, and both clean, and both cook, and both care for the children. We will be equal partners. I will never be in a relationship again with a woman that does not have her own career and career aspirations. My perfect partner will love me unconditionally, for my good points and bad points . I am not perfect. But I am a loyal, caring, athletic, intelligent, man with a good career. She should want me and I should want her. The physical chemistry is very important. I won't discuss it here. But we have to be very compatible physically. And both want to make each other happy. I should be a priority for her as she is for me!
Where do you want to live?
I need to be near my children. So, for the next few years, in Connecticut in the USA. And in the Greater New York City area. After that, I am flexible.
 
Do I enjoy gardening?
Don't mind helping
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?
I get by
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?
Hate it
Do I enjoy cooking?
I really enjoy cooking
How often do I like to go out?
Twice a week
Do I enjoy dining out?
I enjoy it
When it comes to TV
Opt for a movie
When it comes to money
I spend some and I save some
Describe myself at a party as a
Impartial observer
Keep my space
Always clean for company
Ideally I would like to live in a
beach house
Preference for pets
I have Dogs, Birds, Don't have but like Fish
What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Sci-fi, Sport, News, Nature/wildlife, Mystery/thriller, Films, Documentary, Comedy, Action/Adventure
I enjoy spending free time
Doing something athletic, Curling up with a good book, Having lunch with a friend, With family, Doing absolutely nothing, Catching up on household chores, Taking a class, Watching TV or a movie, Among friends, In nature
Activities that I enjoy
Biking, Boating/sailing, Fishing, Hiking, Jogging/running, Mountain climbing, Skiing/snowboarding, Snowmobiling, Weight lifting
Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing
Diving, Extreme sports, Football, Golf, Hockey, Olympic sports, Soccer, Tennis
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy
Concerts, Darts, Movies, Museum/arts, Classical music, Country music, Jazz music, Pop music, Rock music, Poetry, Reading, Surfing the web
Other hobbies or interests
Dogs, family/kids, home improvement, philosophy/spiritual, travelling, yoga